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Yes, I have turned into a crazy person

jodipplsjodippls member
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in Florida-North Florida
I had a meltdown this afternoon. I feel like I've been planning so long but I have no ideas. I realized that I don't really have any ideas for decor. I'm not too worried about this since our venue is really pretty and has a great view. Also, I am so tired of FI not communicating with me. I run ideas by him and his response is "okay, whatever". I start to go forward with said ideas and suddenly he has an opinion. I know it's just the stress of being 39 days out but I really just want to sit down and cry. Sigh... thanks for listening. =)
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Re: Yes, I have turned into a crazy person

  • janedoe1113ajanedoe1113a member
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    edited December 2011
    Aww...you know how to contact me if you need to talk!  It will all be over soon.
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  • katiek200katiek200 member
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    edited December 2011
    Aww don't stress. I think a lot of FIs are like that (mine included). I understand the stress of needing to get things done!!
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  • jodipplsjodippls member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks ladies! I did get FI to give me the go ahead to book the excursion for our HM. We're doing the Isla Passion by Twister excursion in Cozumel. It sounds like a lot of fun!
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  • toblave13toblave13 member
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    edited December 2011
    Aww! Yay for the excursion. Don't feel bad about FI...mine is same exact way when it comes to wedding stuff. You're almost there and it will all be worth it :)
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  • jenniferbg120jenniferbg120
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    edited December 2011
    I completely know what you are talking about Jodi! I am an 11/14 bride also and its hard trying to not feel overwhelmed. I made a to do list of everything left to finish and it made me feel more flustered. I'll be sending good vibes your way!
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  • brittjoy84brittjoy84 member
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    edited December 2011
    Take a deep breath! It will all work out and tell your FI when he didn't have an opinion in the planning process he is not allowed to have an opinion once you have already done something.
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  • KornKittenBrideKornKittenBride
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sorry Jodi, My FI is / doing the same thing. He would say things like " Do whatever you want" and the like. It was/ is very annoying. He's trying to get better about it after we had a discussion about his input and how I would like to have his opinions.  It will get better. w/ 24 days left for me to go, I just can't wait for all of this to be over with!
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  • NYHarleyBrideNYHarleyBride
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    edited December 2011
    Go home, have a glass of wine and take a day off from planning! And then follow Britt's advice above. Also, don't be too stressed about excursions. We did not plan any until we got on the ship and still had a great time. You will drive yourself nuts being overwhelmed by som many things when you get down to the wire. I sort of assigned one task a day, and once that was checked off, went on to the next. Otherwise, I didn't know where to start.
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  • jodipplsjodippls member
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    edited December 2011
    Harley- wine sounds amazing, too bad I already drank it all. I might have to settle for a Miller Lite.
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  • obiangobiang
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    edited December 2011
    I am sure a lot of us are feeling the same way you do. I have 51 more days and I feel I have SOOO much left to do. I am planning from Germany and it has not been exciting at all.I have learned today that 'Whatever' is the most annoying word nationwide. I know I use that word a lot and guessed it before I even opened up the article. But it is definitely annoying when other people use it...especially when trying to get help planning the wedding.http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/33223279/ns/us_news-life/?GT1=43001If I remember correctly, you are having your reception at Tiger Point?? I am getting married / having reception at Hidden Creek. I will be doing centerpieces and a few other things, but truthfully both places are decorated beautifully and you don't need to do much more.So don't stress...it will be okay!!!!
    A happy newlywed...now time to start a family!
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