My bf just told me that he wouldn't want to get married before gratuating. I understand him, and in theory it would make sense. But, he hasn't been studying in the past three years, he's been working. But before marrying he wants to go back to university, and gratuate. So he's saying he wouldn't marry me atleast in the next five years. I'm 25, and he knows that I want to get married before turning 30. I can't help but to think that if he then happens to change his mind about marrying, he has wiped out my dream. It's a bit silly, but I feel almost trapped. Ofcourse I won't leave him because of this - I love him! - but I'm afraid that that's what he's counting on.