hey lady.so good news: you still have your planning buddy! I am scaling the ceremony down and making that part pretty short and emphasizing the cocktail party. i couldnt bring myself to getting married in a courthouse. i want it to be before a minster and before God not a judge. And since we already have the deposits and the dress and caterer I am just going to spend as little money as possible on everything else. sooooo.... on with the planning! :-)(thanks for your input when I had my little fit though lol)