So I just found out accidentally that my coworker - who was hired after me, and has sales bonuses on top of her salary - makes significantly more than me. I have been meaning to ask for a raise sooner, but because I got sick when all the partners were in town (and couldn't exactly be like, "So I just missed two weeks of work, let's talk about paying me more!"). And then I was waiting for us to get a project as I know it was hard to justify paying more when the office hasn't started making a profit yet. But.... yeah, that sympathy went out the window when I found out she was making a LOT more than me in salary. I did a LOT of work to set up this company and keep things rolling as my stupid boss failed at everything. I've helped with EVERYTHING, well beyond my job description, and have had a major title promotion without a salary raise. It's time to discuss a raise.
I'm really nervous, though. Have any of you asked for significant salary raises? How'd you bring it up, or how would you bring it up in this situation? Anything I should keep in mind, or a strategy? I'm afraid they're just going to be like, "No" and I won't have anything else to say because it's not like I have another job lined up.

