Q&A 12/28

w+c3 · December 2011

I'm curious as to everyones view on true love/ soulmates.

amh04 · December 2011

I put other because I'm stuck between only having one person, and multiples. There are always other people out there who are good matches for you, that you could be happy with and even love and be in love with. But for me I couldn't imagine being with anyone but FI, he compliments be in everyway and is the one person who makes me want to be a better person, consistantly.

I've been in love before or loved before, stupidly. But it wasn't a healthy relationship. Could it of worked? Ehh.. I dont know. Maybe. Would I of been the best person I could be? No. I just think its a combination, who knows if there is really another 'soulmate' out there. There could be, but I don't want to find out, I'm happy with FI.

rebeccaa12 · December 2011

I believe a true soulmate is a person who is constantly learning, changing and adapting and is receptive and open minded to not only other people but to themselves as well. I believe all people have the capability and capacity for love, but that compatability is important, as well.

So to be honest, circumstantially, becuase I found my FI who was at that point in his life, looking for the same thing, we found each other. But it could have been fate. Who knows?

Carykay · December 2011

I'm not sure if I believe in solemates. I believe in fate. FI and I have been in the same place at the same time and never met and then one day (when in party stage of our lives) we finally did meet. Then talking we realized we probably met a lot of times just never paid attention. I feel like fate brought us together and we both changed for the better. God only knows how we would be if we didn't meet each other. We both didn't want a relationship with anyone until we meet each other. People were so mad at is when we started dating because we turned down so many people. If we didn't change for each other there is no way we would be together right now. We didn't make each other change its like we wanted to change. Its hard to explain but I tried lol.

brittandjp · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_march-2012-weddings_qa-1228?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:955e4823-0be1-44ef-9ee7-99a63794e103Discussion:fa860f6a-cf5c-4bce-958d-a933c17e412fPost:be0492ec-2176-4aed-9fdc-eb65fa1cc2a7">Re: Q&A 12/28</a>:
[QUOTE]<strong>I put other because I'm stuck between only having one person, and multiples. There are always other people out there who are good matches for you, that you could be happy with and even love and be in love with. But for me I couldn't imagine being with anyone but FI, he compliments be in everyway and is the one person who makes me want to be a better person, consistantly.</strong> I've been in love before or loved before, stupidly. But it wasn't a healthy relationship. Could it of worked? Ehh.. I dont know. Maybe. Would I of been the best person I could be? No. I just think its a combination, who knows if there is really another 'soulmate' out there. There could be, but I don't want to find out, I'm happy with FI.
Posted by amh04[/QUOTE]

This exactly.

kamarks08 · December 2011

I don't believe in soul mates. I just can't bring myself to believe that in a planet full of billions of people there is exactly just one person for you. I've had this discussion before and feel as though sometimes people think I'm just pessimistic about it. I'm incredibly happy and in love with my FI and wouldnt dream it any other way, but it's a large concept to say that there's not one more person out there I couldve been comparable with. Not that I'm looking for it, as said above...I'm not looking for anybody else, I just don't believe in soul mates.

w+c3 · December 2011

My whole life I have believed in soulmates. I just felt like God had one particular person in mind for me and I would be lead to that one person and he would be my soulmate. However I see more and more people who were married and became widowed find love again and their marriages seems so solid and real I can't help but wonder if soulmates existed how would it work twice? Then I think of couples that I see who are head over heels in love. I'm sure you've all known a couple and maybe they were even older, but they seem to have a once in a lifetime love. I look at them and think I LOVE my FI more than anything but I don't feel like our love is THAT good....makes me believe more and more like there are multiple people for you out in the world. The people who are head over heels like that just must have found one of the most compatible for them. Like on a match scale they are a 10 instead of a 7 or 8. (Get what I'm saying?)

Idk.....

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