Community› Local Wedding Boards› New Jersey
New Jersey
New Discussion

Precana?

jaimelodyjaimelody
2500 Comments Combo Breaker
in New Jersey
FI and I live together. Did you put that on your application if you live together? I guess I'm just nervous because it's the south and they are really strict. Thoughts?
Report Reply to Post

Re: Precana?

  • erikag23erikag23
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    great way to start off....don't lie about your living situation.
    Report Reply
  • jaimelodyjaimelody
    2500 Comments Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    Yea I kinda thought that. And if we were in jersey with our preist okay... But I'm shunned by the eyes of God everyday down here.
    Report Reply
  • ddelo23ddelo23
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Yea I wouldn't lie.  And plus, just cuz you live togehter doesn't mean that you make whoopy!! :)
    imageAlternaTickers - Cool, free Web tickers Lilypie Second Birthday tickers Lilypie Maternity tickers
    Report Reply
  • mscutierimscutieri
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Hiney hole? Whoopy?  What's happening to you Dana?  If I bring you some White Castle, will that bring you back to normal?
    Photobucket Wedding Countdown Ticker
    image182 invited
    image4 got lost on their way to the mailbox
    image127 will witness the anticipated bear union
    image51 will miss out a beary good time
    [RSVP Date 6/01] [125 min]
    Report Reply
  • Lola MinnieLola Minnie member
    1000 Comments Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    I actually used my parents address for mailing purposes because the msngr knows my family well.  However, I don't think it would make a difference.
    Report Reply
  • ddelo23ddelo23
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    ha ha. yes.  it is possible.
    imageAlternaTickers - Cool, free Web tickers Lilypie Second Birthday tickers Lilypie Maternity tickers
    Report Reply
  • Tara2316Tara2316
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I wouldn't lie about it. I think they're aware that most people live together before marriage.

    image
    Tara & Jose 10.17.10
    Report Reply
  • hollyberry88hollyberry88
    1000 Comments Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    Don't lie about it.  Fi and I took all the tests and everything.  Out of the 14 couples there, only 2 did not live together.
    Holly & Brendan
    Wedding date 10/8/10
    EDD 5/9/13 Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Report Reply
  • kdimartino98kdimartino98
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Be honest!  Don't like because they are likely to find out that you live together.  Our priest wasn't overly excited that we were living together, but they accept it now and just give you an extra couple of questions to answer on the test.  Its really  not a big deal.
    Report Reply
  • acablitasacablitas member
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Agreed with pp.  No need to lie.
    Report Reply
  • Angie550Angie550 member
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I put my Mom's address down as mine and FI put ours.  We were never actually asked though if we lived together.
    Report Reply
  • jaimelodyjaimelody
    2500 Comments Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    TY ladies. Unfortunately it's a little different down here. I'm the minority living with FI already. Customer actually told me when we bought our house, "boy, you're really putting the cart before the horse." So, I'm not sure how the priests/ppl running the class will react.
    Report Reply
  • alliecarrie41alliecarrie41 member
    Knottie Warrior 1000 Comments Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    you should tell the truth.  it's really ridiculous to lie to a priest.
    Report Reply
  • cvl105cvl105
    5000 Comments Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    we put that we live together.  The priest even said during precana how he understands that now alot of people decide to live together before marriage, etc.
    ~Chelsea~
    image
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards