I'm just asking for an opinion, so please don't attack me like vultures lol I know how tough things can get in here
. Is it bad to think about what you want your wedding to be like (colors, details, etc) if you're not engaged yet? My guy and I have spoken about getting married, the ring is being purchased, etc. Things are only being held up because we are in lack of money, besides that, we would get married tomorrow if we could
. All of that aside, I can't help but think that I can't wait to finally be his MRS. Do you think its bad to preplan (i guess that's what it could be called) your wedding? Like write down the details of what you would like, etc. so that when the time comes it would be a million times easier?