So FI and I have never been huge on sweetest day. A card, bottle of wine maybe, and we're good to go. No huge ordeal. We've been together 3 years now. I get him a card, his fav chocolate, his fav Italian treat, and this Camaro magazine he's been eyeing up for a few weeks. Nothing major...but something. I give him his gift this morning...he say's "Oh thanks, sweetie! I forgot it was sweetest day. I'm not much of a sweetest day kind of guy." It wasn't a big deal...but seriously I gave him that at like 10:00 this morning. You didn't even think to go get flowers? a card? Nothing? He's had all day...and nothing. He even tried getting me to go buy him jeans today on top of it. WTF???? So because he's not a sweetest day kind of guy...I get the shaft? What the hell is up with that? I'm normally not all hung up on crap like this...but it seriously rubbed me the wrong way today. That's my little vent. Hope your FI's were at least a little more on the ball today than mine was.