Okay, so I just got engaged on the 1st of October. I was totally surprised because my Fiance and I had talked about waiting for me to finish school to do this so we could pay for the wedding ourselves. Now I'm so excited to start planning, however we don't have any money to pay for a wedding. Neither of our parents have the money either. My mom has an insane amount of family on her side and I'd like them all to be there. So a small affair is out of the question. So I guess my question is....if it were you.....would you put it off for another 3 years, or just try to throw something together with pennies right now and not be truly happy with it. I know, it's suppose to be about marrying the one you love, but I plan on this being my only wedding in my life and I want it to be done right..ya know! By the way, my now Fiance and I have been together for 8 years, so another 3 seems like forever!!! Thanks