My dad and I were very close when I was growing up. I lived with him and my two brothers and I was very much daddy's little girl. But in middle school he got remarried and everything changed. He let her control his life and mine. I feel very much like he choose her and her daughter over me. I ended up leaving to live with my mom when I was 16. For the first few years after that we didn't talk. Over the last few years we have started to talk a little more, but we are not close at all. I do not think that he deserves the honor of walking me down the aisle. I really want my grandpa (his dad) to walk me down the aisle. But he is getting up there in years and I'm not sure if he will be around when I get married. In that case I will be having my mom walk me down the aisle. But I was thinking about still doing the daddy/daughter dance with my dad. But I'm at a loss as to how to tell him without hurting his feelings. He probably won't make a big deal of it when I tell him, but once he tells his wife she will most likely over react. I really want to keep the drama to a minimum. Any suggestions on how to break the news?