...I've been getting awesome wedding related advice and ideas from all of my male co-workers and brothers. I feel like a majority of them secretly wanted to help with the planning of their own wedding and were completely shafted, or didnt speak up and are regretting it!
My wedding is a ways away obviously, but my FI's outlook is "tell me when to show up & what to wear". I'm sure he will be more interested as we get closer to planning, but was/is your FI involved in the planning?