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maid & matron of honor

This might be a dumb question but, I am having both a maid of honor and a matron of honor, does it matter which one stands/walks where?
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Re: maid & matron of honor

  • Nope. One doesn't get priority because she's already married. I would choose something arbitrary: Height, alphabetical order, etc. Or just let them figure it out--my BMs figured out their order literally as they lined up to go down the aisle.
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  • You could let one stand next to you at the ceremony and be the last one in/first one out of the wedding party ... and then the other girl can sign the license as your official witness and maybe give the toast. That way they can both share in the honors of the position.   And you can rotate around during the formal photos so they're both standing next to you in some shots. Or one MOH on either side of you.
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  • I was a maid in my friend's wedding and she also had a matron. It doesn't really matter if you don't care. I stood closer to her and had all the "responsibilities" of the MOH....the other girl only got the title, but felt more like a bm.
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  • When I started planning mine, I had both as well...one was my sister and I had intended on her standing next to me as, well, she's my big sister. It's really entirely up to you. But if you feel there will be hurt feelings, have them share duties
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