What are you guys not including in your "wedding budget", but are definitely part of the wedding/ engagement? Trying to figure out what I could keep out of the "budget" to try and stay within the "Budget parameters"! For me, it seems that I was not considering wedding bands, boudoir pics, hooneymoon, rehearsal dinner (technically different budget) and bridal party favors as part of the budget. I know, so so sad that I am trying to weasel my way out of staying in budget!