So my wedding is in the winter & we will be using black & ivory as our colors. The BMs will be in black dresses & GMs will be in all black suits. I'm having trouble figuring out how to use an accent color w/o it taking over the whole wedding. Also, I would like opinions on the accent color....a medium purple or a deep red? TIA!! Was considering doing reception in primarily the accent color just to make it a little unexpected...what do ya'll think? Has anyone else done this before?