LVB post about her FI not charging his phone and he didn't know his father's phone number by heart in order to call and ask for some assistance with his car got me thinking?a) Do you have your FIL/IL's numbers in YOUR phonebook/phone?b) Do you own an 'old school' address book? You know the one that you have write down all the information. c) Do you know your parent's phones numbers by heart?here are my answers:a) yes we both have our IL's numbers on our phones. Not that we call them often and they all know both of ours.b) yes. I've lost too many phones not to have papeback up on phone numbersc) nope. My parent's have moved so much I just can't keep up with their phone numbers. I barely know their area code (317 currently). I do know my sister's phone number by heart. I also know my aunt's, she has had the same phone number for 50+ years.MIL has had the same phone number for 30 years. So yes DH knows that number, as it was his at one point also.
What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests. Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated.