For those that had an engagement party...did you open the gifts in front of all the guests or did you wait and open them after the party?? My FMIL is throwing us a E-party and FI and I just wanted to make sure that is what you do. FMIL insists that it is fine to open them at the party. FYI...FI's family is jewish and I guess for their family it is customary to buy a gift off the registry for the engagement party and then give money at the wedding...so we will have a lot of our gifts from our registries..