Got my Bridal Shower dress!!and a peek at my Bshower invite!

lnvane00 · February 2012

I'm so in love!

And my Bridesmaid who is planning my shower sent me a sneak peek at my invite! And thats the ONLY thing she is letting me see! But she did say the theme of the shower is vintage/lace style. She's wont let me know anything else!

I cant wait! And I have a question. On the invite she says its hosted by the bridesmaids. BUT she is the ONLY one who has done ANYTHING for this so far. I'm sure the other girls with help somewhat, with some stuff. But should I tell her to just say she is the host? I dont want it to be rude. But I also want her to have A LOT more credit since she has been planning it. I think I'm gonna get her a special gift to say thank you anyways. But just wanted opinions??

mancila60 · February 2012

Everything looks great. My MOH has done the same thing with my shower, she said they were hosting BUT she has done pretty much everything. I didn't know she had included it on the invites until my mom recieved hers yesterday. I am however getting her a seperate gift. I would say for the sake of keeping peace leave it as everyones name and then just get her a nice gift.

Saragem1982 · February 2012

I LOVE your dress! Where did you get it?

LBug24 · February 2012

LOVE your dress as well! Possibly stealing it for mine! haha

Your shower invites are CUTE! I feel like you might just end up stirring up drama if you make a big deal out of "who does more".. she chose to put their names on there, so she must be okay with it. aybe the others are contributing financially but not the planning,e tc?
Either way, acknowledge it.. but no need to make a fuss. Get her an extra special gift, maybe mention "ALL the work she did to put this together" if you respond/give a toast or speech at the shower or RD?

lnvane00 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]LOVE your dress as well! Possibly stealing it for mine! haha Your shower invites are CUTE! I feel like you might just end up stirring up drama if you make a big deal out of "who does more".. she chose to put their names on there, so she must be okay with it. aybe the others are contributing financially but not the planning,e tc? Either way, acknowledge it.. but no need to make a fuss. Get her an extra special gift, maybe mention "ALL the work she did to put this together" if you respond/give a toast or speech at the shower or RD?
Posted by LBug24[/QUOTE]

Good idea! :) I'll just leave it be Thanks!

lnvane00 · February 2012

I got it from Delias!

http://store.delias.com/browse.do?categoryKey=dresses&topnavTrack=dresses&incmpid=TopNavDresses

Melissa51212 · February 2012

Love your dress! So exciting....

dori851 · February 2012

Love your dress, so cute! And I agree with PP that said to not make a big fuss about who your MOH put on the invite as to who is hosting the shower. I think you have a great idea to get her a special gift & it'll probably mean a lot to her/let her know that you're acknowledging all of the hard work she put into it!