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  • I am so sorry to here that your Grandfather is also sick. That was rude of that person to say.
  • Oh no!  I'm so sorry - it's always hard w/ multiple illnesses in the family.  please don't ever consider a career as a suicide hotline counselor.This made me snicker.
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  • Oh no :(  I'm so sorry!  And it sounds like someone doesn't think before they talk.  Holy insensitive!

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  • Gina -- hugs to you.  What an incredibly sucky thing to say to someone.
  • ::hug::  I'm so sorry to hear about these health issues!  You should go smack the person who made that insensitive comment.  It would make you feel better. 
  • I'm so sorry.  People can be really tactless and I'm always amazed at that.  Tragedy brings out the best in a very few and the worst in most.
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  • Sorry to hear about your dad & grandfather. Even more sorry to hear people are still insensitive a-holes.
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  • Total justification for a punch in the junk. I'm sorry your family is going through such health problems. And that you work with such a giant bag o'douche.
  • Im sorry to hear about your dad and grandfather. You should have told that guy maybe he was next! That would have shut him up.
  • Oh dear, lilgina. I'm sorry to hear about your family's cancer issues :( Sending good, happy vibes your way. Ugh :(
  • People can be incredibly insensitive at times, and it can be hard to believe they mean well, even if they do.  Sorry to hear about everything your family is going through right now, hopefully things start looking up soon.
  • I've found people definitely struggle with what to say when they find out info like that.  Like they suddenly are overcome with the need to say something insightful and/or witty, and it just comes out sounding like you're a jerk without a filter.  I probably would have said "For future reference, 'I'm sorry' is actually a much better response when someone gives you bad news."  Then hopefully they would have felt like a jerk.  Ugh.

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  • Aww I'm so sorry, lil.
  • I'm so sorry.And people say stupid things often, so just ignore the 'in threes' comment.
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  • Ignoring the stupid ignoramus comment that person said... I'm really sorry about your grandpa.What's in your glass in your siggy pic?
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  • I'm glad vally changed her pic or I'd get confused!
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  • Hells yea! I haven't heard of Magners Irish Cider, is it anything like Strongbow?
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  • very similar to strongbow. It also comes in pear flavor instead of apple.
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  • I'm so sorry about all of this. I like Nebb's idea of suggesting Mr. Insensitive could be next. Also, I admire that you obviously are keeping your sense of humor right now- that's really important to dealing with crap like this. Vally- Magner's is amazing. Also marketed in the States as Bullmer's. I would steal half of lilgina's keg but sounds like she needs it more than I do....
  • I dealt with something kind of similar to this in 2004 and I know how it feels to have all this awfulness loaded on your plate. We are here for you and don't worry about that guy. What a diick.
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  • I read 'pear' flavor as something different. I'm sure you can guess what it was.Thanks for the tips on Magner's/Bullmer's/whatevers. I have not met a beer or a cider I don't like. Well, except Heineken. Not a fan.
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  • I'm so sorry you are dealing with all of this. It sucks, and I hope you come here when you need a lift. Hang in there! I'd have kicked the jerk in the nads and said, "Oops! There's your first bad thing to happen. Watch out for the other two!" but that's just me.
  • Ditto lil g. :)



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  • I'm sorry LilGina, that is hard.  And I can't believe someone said that to you.
  • Wow, he didn't fall far from the idiot tree.  Sorry you are getting a double whammy with the health news in your family.  love Strongbow, wish I could get it around here.  Sometimes I can but it's hard.
  • This is the kind of response that is warranted in polite society! Which apparently only exists on the P&E boardOh, the irony...
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  • Gina, I'm so sorry to hear about this, and it sucks that someone said that to you.I love your sense of humor. Don't ever lose it!
  • I'm so sorry to hear about your father and grandfather.  I'm keeping you and them in my thoughts!And yeah, that person is a douche.  I hope you actually said the suicide hotline line to them because seriously, they should be called out on that.
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