I want something at my ceremony that sticks out for guests to remember... currently we are have horizon bridesmaids dresses (like a deep blue) holding pale yellow flowers and i will be holding red.... i am marrying a marine at a military academy on memorial day weekend but i dont want anything that says over patriotic.....i need some creative ideas for place cards, guest book...etc...any ideas?? we are having betta fish on the tables as our centerpiece....