first off let me start by saying facebook is the devil second if i offend anyone by what I am about to say please know that it is not directed towards you...now onto my vent I HATE MY FSIL!!!!!! I have hated her for almost 8 years now and now I am marrying her brother. I knew her before I knew her brother, but thats besides the point... About 6 months ago we have a knock down drag out because she was upset that we didnt tell her FIRST that we were engaged, people who were there when it happened posted things on facebook before we got to tell everyone and of course she lives and breathes facebook( you could say shes a stalker) and she saw aall the postings... We after that we both said we wanted to start fresh, erase the past and be mroe involved in each others lives. At first it was going fine, barely talked and she pretty much stayed mute about things. Well then it came down to when we picked our wedding parties and she wasnt in it, I don't want her in my bridal party and Fi doesnt want her on his side either. Welll low and behold my FSIL and FMIL flipped out...saying its the right thing to do blah blah blah, FSIL threatened to not come to the wedding(fine by me and FI was even okay with it) but i gave in because i knew in the end it would be more of problem if she want in it then to just have her in it. So she is a bridesmaid in my wedding, UGH! Well from then on(early september) things have been fine and they should be because she got her way, we had even planned a trip down to MS to see her, but it got canceled because of new jobs and not being able to get time off... Lately things have gone back to the way they were, she complains about everything and makes it all about her. Let me give you some examples... 1. I am having my boobs done next week and a friend posted on my facebook page about it, FSIL--flipped out saying yall didnt have any money to come visit me but you have money to get boobs, thats pretty expensive. 2. I test drove a new car the other day and of course I put a picture up of me in the car on facebook and she flipped out again--saying "Yall sure are spending alot of money lately, i need to give you guys my christmas list of all the expensive things so you can buy them" 3. I asked her for her opinion about a wedding gift for FI. I want to buy him a jeep(that he can rebuild, and play with) SHE FLIPPED!! Gosh, yall just have plenty of money down you, yall should be saving for a house and kids, and other expenses not going out and getting new cars, boobs, etc." 4. Bridesmaids dress-FSIL is very very heavy...all the rest of my bridesmaids are skinny, when I pick out a dress and send her a link she comes back with some off the wall answer or excuse, i dont like the colors or the cut isnt right, jesus--IS THIS MY WEDDING OR HERS!! It really bothers me that it's all about money to her, probably because she doesnt have any(sorry that was mean but i had to). i will admit I am not poor and am pretty well off and my FI is marrying into money, but I have never and will never flaunt it around that I have money. if you just looked at me or knew me you wouldnt think I had any. I just dont undertsand I have tried and tried with FSIL on all different accounts and she makes it all about her or money and what not. i just dont think i can deal with this for the rest of my life, its not healthy. And no i am not changing my life(ie what i post on facebook) for one person. help me out here ladies!!