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• shellybeth member

  

  November 2009 edited December 2011

  Not that I know of..

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• jeanacorina

  

  November 2009 edited December 2011

  A who?

  

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• honeybee724 member

  

  November 2009 edited December 2011

  I don't know?

  WHO DEY!

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• prettynpink81 member

  

  November 2009 edited December 2011

  Meaning Is your Mother Being a Momzilla and your not even engaged yet???? Mine is. Wanted to see if there were others out there.

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• Button5807

  

  November 2009 edited December 2011

  nope

   

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• notquiteblushing member

  

  November 2009 edited December 2011

  I'm engaged but no, my mom is pretty calm.  She lives 3 hours away from me so I don't have to see her all the time.  She does buy random wedding crap I don't need but that's pretty tame.

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• PaigeMcC member

  

  November 2009 edited December 2011

  Yes! Well I wouldn't call her momzilla but she's getting a little excited about the prospect.Last night we went for supper and we were sitting around the living room and she just burst out being like "So for your wedding I think we should...yadda yadda yadda." I love my mother dearly but I had to stop her there.  She's a little excited for it to happen! Atleast I know I've got her help when the time comes, tho! haha

  
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• cstasz1384 member

  

  November 2009 edited December 2011

  My mother is starting to show signs of it. We have argued over a Polish tradition she wants me to do.I hate this thing. Basically the bride wears an apron with little baby dolls attached and everyone at the reception dances around her in a circle singing some song. It is supposed to symbolize becoming a wife. I have no desire to ever have this at my wedding but she won't compromise on it and I am not even engaged yet!

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• KD+BC

  

  November 2009 edited December 2011

  My mom is the complete opposite. Whenever anyone brings up the possibility of me getting married she just says no or changes the subject. She loves my bf so I'm not sure what the issue is. I've decided to ignore it until I get engaged then deal with it if/when it is an issue.

  

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• Acrosthec

  

  November 2009 edited December 2011

  I thought my mom was going to be a total control freak because a) she's usually a control freak and b) they're paying for the majority of the wedding.  A very generous offer that FI and I took them up on gratefully, and with it came some strings:  get married in a church, have a nice reception, get married in Savannah.  All things that we hadn't necessarily planned on, but could live with easily.  Once we got past those strings, mom has been fairly easy to get along with.  The only argument we've really had is over whether our (FI and me) godchildren should be there, as they are both going to be under 2 years old.  I put my foot down and said we'd figure it out, but they were going to be there, and mom backed down.  In the end, it wasn't that important to her whether they were there or not, she just thinks it'll be a logistical problem, which it may, but we'll get through it.She's backed way off of where she was before we were engaged.  Before she was all "you have to have this and do this and invite this person, etc." and now she really is just kinda letting FI and I run the show, putting in input where she feels it's appropriate.  We always listen, and when we agree with her suggestions we act on them.  If we don't agree then we try to work out a compromise.  It's really not as bad as I thought it would be.

  
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• a&b=him&me member

  

  November 2009 edited December 2011

  No ma'am. None here.

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• RedMinx member

  

  November 2009 edited December 2011

  Not here either.  My mom loves my BF, but she has never pushed marriage or (to take this a bit further) wanting grandkids.  Same thing with my sister...My sister has been married about a year and a half now, and she was super calm and reserved with her wedding and never talks about the kid thing with her either.

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• emmyroo member

  

  November 2009 edited December 2011

  I can see my mom thinking that things should be a "certain way", but I think she'll be cool with me wanting whatever I want.  My grandma basically planned my mom's wedding back in the day, so my mom knows how I would feel if she took over.  She said that she would be sure to chill out and let me plan my own wedding.The only thing I can see is with the guest list and her wanting to invite all her church friends.  We talked about this one day when she started talking about my future "wedding".  I'll be okay with inviting people from church for the most part because some of her friends are adults that have been a part of my life since I was born and they have seen me grow up and all that.  The only thing is my parents are very involved in many organizations at church and my mom feels like she won't be able to "pick and choose" between the people involved.  Such as, if she were to only invite the friends she and my dad are close to, she thinks it would snub the people who are in these organizations and aren't close friends.  Some of those aren't my favorite people and I want something really small with just family and our closest friends.  So, we'll have to see how that works out when the time comes.

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• ekathleen684

  

  November 2009 edited December 2011

  HAHA Bueller? I say that to my BF all the time when he doesn't answer his texts! Anyways, I dont have a pre-momzilla but so far I think I will have a pre-DADzilla. He wants my wedding at this amazing, uber-expensive hall and a specific caterer. The probably with this is that 1. The BF and I would be paying for most of this wedding at this amazing hall and 2. Said hall doesn't allow outside caterers, which the caterer would be. I've had told him this about 20 times and he still insists on both. Ok, Dad. At least he's involved I guess, LOL.

  

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