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September 2012 Weddings

I shouldnt be mad but (vent)

So I wake up from working my night shift to a text from my MOH saying hey so were hanging out tomorrow at noon tomorrow and oh I sent you an email i booked the hotel and that other stuff u sent me.

So back story My MOH is a little stressed about being a MOH, so is like super crazy about getting everything done. After christmas we met with the other bridesmaids and we picked what I thought was a tentative date for everyone to check and see if works (in JULY) I went out with my MOH the other day and she was talking about booking the hotel by the end of Feb, and I was like what why, its too early wait at least until March just to make sure plans dont change.
The other night at work one of the girls that will be coming was looking up stuff to do in san diego, so we were looking up hotels and different things to possibly do, and I sent off an email to the MOH saying hey i was bored at work, these things look cool,  (in my mind meaning oh lets look more into this and talk with everyone else about  it)

I look at the email she booked at $1500 NON REFUNDABLE room, and booked the 2 other things that I had emailed her! Without talking to anyone!

I know I know I know, i should be greatful she took things into her own hands, she says she will "take full financial responsiblity", but how guilty is everyone going to feel if she paid THAT MUCH!

sorry for the vent im just super blind sided by all of this, plus I have 2 MOH and the other one was supposed to be involved in the bachelorette party planning process and she didnt consult with her at ALL
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Re: I shouldnt be mad but (vent)

  • You're right, it is good that she took "full financial responsibility," it's just a sticky situation.  Hopefully she won't have to pay a bunch more!
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  • oye, not cool. Sounds like a fun weekend at least?
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  • Yikes. That's a lot of dough.... I'd talk with her but at the end of the day she's the one that didn't take your advice of not booking until later and she'll have to eat that mistake. Sucks, though!
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  • I think you just need to let the other girls know ASAP that there was a miscommunication and the stuff is already booked. That way they can make whatever arrangements they need to open that weekend up.

    Then when you meet up with your MOH just tell her that stuff like that needs to be disscussed with everyone involved.
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