Ok so my last post was a bit of a freak out I'm still not sure what I'm going to do but as of right now I really really hate the rustic/sunflower wedding we have planned. I really want my wedding ceremony in my backyard the reception is in a ballroom it looks like a old elegant hunting lodge (best way to describe it) . I love the idea of incorporating nature just more elegantly. If anyone has ideas on how to make a backyard elegant without breaking the bank please let me know. Colors, flowers, centerpieces etc. I'm starting from stratch. One thing I know is I want the guys in black, suits or tux? I dont want them to die outside in July. Thanks!