So I've always looked up to my older brother, but right now I think he's just done the stupidest thing he's ever done. So when I got engaged back in June, and I called my brother to tell him, he had nothing to say but "WOW." he wasn't trying to be mean, but he wasn't really being nice either, and it took me a minute to realize, "oh.. .you're going to be in trouble, aren't you?" and he responded "yes, yes I am" because he's been with his live in girl friend far longer than I have been with my FI. Well I just got a text from his girlfriend with a picture of an engagement ring. I called her to ask her what the deal was, and she told me to ask him. So I called him and he told me he has no intention what so ever to marry her and doesn't want to be questioned by anyone. He says she just has an expensive ring on her finger, it makes her happy, and nothing has changed. He got very snippy about how everyone is taking it the wrong way, and I tried to step lightly and explain that he's going to have to be prepared for people to take it the wrong way. So I told my dad and he said that my brother "just bought her a shut up ring, because she wouldn't shut up about getting married, but what he doesn't realize is her parents and friends reactions, and how he just bought himself a very expensive break up ring." I guess I don't have to talk any sense into my brother because I guess he's going to hear it enough from everyone else. I don't know that I'm looking for any advice really, I just wanted to share this story with you girls because I'm still in shock and just scratching my head.
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