I know there has been plenty of discussion about people outside of your relationship asking questions about when you are getting married, then when you'll have kids, etc. etc, but has anyone experienced this?
My BF and I live together, but this is a recent thing, and have been together about a year and a half. Recently we've been getting a lot of questions about our relationship, but they are skipping clear over getting married and asking about kids. For example, BF's mom and I were talking about some change she'd heard about women's access to mortgages due to pregnancy. So, I was asking questions about what maternity benefits were like in the US and if that would be why she'd heard this. So, we were discussing what the differences were between Canada and the USA. Also, how mine from work would differ from that, as an example of what employers can do on their own. She then proceeded to ask me if we were TTC. I was in shock - does me knowing my maternity benefits, because it is a work benefit that I have and my friends are going through this, automatically go to TTC?
I'm okay with fielding the marriage questions, but I am so caught offguard by the TTC questions.
Anyone else experienced this jump in questioning?