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I hate options! Opinions PLEASE!!!

ajsrajsr
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So me and my Fi are planning our wedding and now it's time for the honeymoon! I want to get it booked, and soon! I have no idea what we are doing but I'm apart of the when. Here's the situation:

We're getting married on a friday and we can either 
A) fly out on saturday and go the week right after the wedding.
B) Do something a little more low key (really nice hotel) for the whole weekend then fly out on tuesday (If I choose this option, I'll miss my kid brothers graduation)
or C) We can leave for the honeymoon the next week after we get everything situated after a night at a really nice hotel.

I guess I'm torn because I would really like to go to my brothers graduation, but is it really terrible if I miss it?! I was to be able to fully enjoy a honeymoon with my then hubby! 

I'm kind of stuck, help and opinions are very welcome!! 
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Re: I hate options! Opinions PLEASE!!!

  • StephBeanWed61502StephBeanWed61502 member
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    We're getting married on a Saturday and going on our honeymoon on Tuesday.  We'll spend the wedding night in a hotel, then go back home for a few days, then leave.  I don't think it's going to take away from the "honeymoon" feeling of it just because we waited two days to fly out, and I personally wouldn't miss my little brother's graduation over this.
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  • Sue-n-KevinSue-n-Kevin member
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    We delayed our HM for a couple of weeks due to what we planned. I actually prefered this, because we could unwind and look forward to it instead of feeling rushed.
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  • Summer2011BrideSummer2011Bride member
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    edited February 2012
    I would probably not miss his graduation. My H's younger brother missed his college graduation (and he didn't even have a good excuse, just didn't feel like going to it) and H was really hurt by it and wished he was there.

    Even if you wait a week or two, I still consider it a HM and think it might be even better if you had some time to unwind before leaving.


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  • mejai1mejai1
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    Take the week off and get things situated. Then you can HM in peace. Don't miss your brother's graduation. It's a big occasion, and he'll be at your wedding, right?

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  • butterflyjumper1butterflyjumper1
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    don't miss the graduation. you will feel guilty if you do.

    we are getting married on a saturday, spending sunday with out of town family, heading to a hotel by the airport on sunday night, and then flying out on monday morning. everyone has a different plan and different reasons to do things. do what is best for you guys - regardless of when you leave, you will still have a perfect honeymoon!
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  • Lisa50Lisa50 member
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    Don't miss the graduation.  Leave for your honeymoon the day after.  Enjoy!
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