I am soon to be engaged to my boyfriend of 4 years. We have been seriously talking about wedding and wedding party. We both have small families, therefore having a small-ish wedding with about 100 guests (this includes the wedding party). He has been saying he has 10 groomsmen, while I have 4 bridesmaids. The uneven number is not an issue to me. My question is, is he being irrational? The men he is thinking of asking are people that I have only met once or twice since we have been together. He has seen them possibly 2-3 times in the passed 5 years. He is also wanting to include his best man's little brother, whom he is not friends with. Am I the one being picky because I would prefer a smaller wedding party since its a small wedding or is he going overboard with who he wants in our wedding? Or should we just leave it as is?