I cannot for the life of me fine a strapless bar or shapwear that both fits and hold my breast up. I wear a 42DDD and it is so hard trying to find something that wont break the bank, and that works. I NEED help. I have one from Lane Bryant, it is a 40DD, it was the largest size they had but it does ea pathetic job of holding my breast up. I also have a shapewear tank top that I purchased from JCPennys and it works, but isnt strapless.....PLEASE HELP!!!