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kimiandgary · January 2012

I have lost my ability to confidently make a decision. I blew through the big things because I had a vision, but now down to the details and what to give as party gifts and I'm second guessing everything!!

Anyone else have this problem?!

LoveYouB · January 2012

Haha you are not alone

L&J2012 · January 2012

In regards to the wedding party gifts, shop like it's their birthday! Buy them something that they will enjoy and find meaningful.

I haven't had that problem yet, but I think that's because I have a FI and mom who aren't afraid to tell me when I have an awful idea! Haha. Good luck! Do what you feel is the best decision (on anything)

ETA: Unless you mean favors. With favors (which you don't have to do, by the way), pick something that's meaningful to you and your FI. For example, we met curling so our favors are going to be little curling rock magnets on top of a chocolate bar with a curling-themed wrapper. FI is also Italian so we're going to have confetti.

AlliJae · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_uh-oh?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:4da5645d-2279-4d5c-ab0a-c22c7d0066a0Post:a5b4ce22-e40b-4743-b164-aa43d08c5022">Re: Uh Oh</a>:
[QUOTE]In regards to the wedding party gifts, shop like it's their birthday! Buy them something that they will enjoy and find meaningful.<strong> I haven't had that problem yet, but I think that's because I have a FI and mom who aren't afraid to tell me when I have an awful idea! Haha</strong>. Good luck! Do what you feel is the best decision (on anything) :)
Posted by L&J2012[/QUOTE]

HAHA! I get this, too. A lot of eye rolls.

L&J2012 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_uh-oh?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:4da5645d-2279-4d5c-ab0a-c22c7d0066a0Post:348af8e9-d65c-43b6-8436-8cd56e578711">Re: Uh Oh</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Uh Oh : HAHA! I get this, too. A lot of eye rolls.
Posted by AlliJae[/QUOTE]

I take it as a good thing, because I know that if I had gone through with those ideas I'd be regretting it now! Though we did modify one idea from a favor to part of the wedding party gift.

AlliJae · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_uh-oh?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:4da5645d-2279-4d5c-ab0a-c22c7d0066a0Post:79459cbc-96eb-4389-b6f8-b55aa2e96c2a">Re: Uh Oh</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Uh Oh : I take it as a good thing, because I know that if I had gone through with those ideas I'd be regretting it now! Though we did modify one idea from a favor to part of the wedding party gift.
Posted by L&J2012[/QUOTE]

Exactly! I would definitely be regretting some of my ideas. Ha.

doeie04 · January 2012

I have second guessed everything but the groom! :P

Liss1485 · January 2012

Glad I am not the only one with this issue. I can't seem to make little decisions on anything. I am like you OP I sailed right on through with the big things. Super easy. Everything else. Not so easy.

melntaitt · January 2012

I'm doing alot of that myself; now that I'm down to the little things, it's so odd that I can't make a decision.

Point and case: trying to decide between the boutonnaires the other day, and figuring out processional and recessional music. The readings are getting on my nerves and I'm this close to cutting them out altogether.

The big things really are the easier things, don't you agree?

kaitlyn142 · January 2012

Decision fatigue. It's actually a thing (link).

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