What would you do? - UPDATE

caitlinc09 · April 2012

Yesterday I posed about our late GMs crazy mother and maybe having security at the wedding to make sure she can't come in and cause a scene.

Well, we confronted her yesterday and made it very clear that she is not invited and had a very distorted view of what was going to be happening that day.

Her response this morning was surprisingly...sane. She seemed understanding and promised to back off because she apparently realized she has lost herself since his passing and harassing his friends is not what he would have wanted her to do.

We are a little weirded out by this response. She apologized for all the crazy stuff she's been doing so I almost feel guilted back in to inviting her, but we are staying strong because with her she could be calm and sane today and crazy again tomorrow.

Based on her reaction, though, I don't think an extra security guard will be required. Which is a relief.

Just thought I'd update you all on this!

vineyard12 · April 2012

I'm glad to hear that she appologized. She must have had a moment of clarity and realized what she was doing. I can't imagine what she must be going htrough with having lost her son. You said she also lost her husband not that long ago too? This could drive anyone nuts. But, you should stand your ground and not let her come to the wedding. I think you are right for this. She could very easily snap again and cause a seen.

Good to see it's working out.