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September 2012 Weddings

Seriously!?!?

Just found out through a friend that apparently my ex FI is saying he's coming to my wedding.... not sure if he even knows where it is, he hasn't talked to me about it at all (obviously, that would indicate talking) and I didn't send him a Save the Date..

Trying to figure out what makes him think he's even invited!?!?!

Re: Seriously!?!?

  • Oh jeez that's insane!  How awkward would that be? I'd assign someone to be bouncer now incase he tries to show up.  And password protect your wedding website if it has details on it about location/time etc.  I would send him an announcement post-wedding though if he's a d*ck about anything haha maybe that's a little much but he's not the lucky guy any more so he can get over himself.
  • Luckily for me one of my ushers is a good friend of FI and mine, and calls himself 'the big black hulk' hahaha I told him about it and his response was "if he shows up... HULK SMASH' hahaha which truthfully he wouldn't hurt a fly, but he LOOKS scary lol
  • Hahahha it is all about perception!
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    sounds like jealous ex talk :P
    I highly doubt he'd actually expect to be invited; he's just making trouble.
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  • Isn't yours a "destination?"  (I hope I'm remembering it right)  

    Sounds to me like he wants to start some drama and get you stressed out.  I wouldn't be concerened and just keep doing what you're doing.  I highly doubt anyone would give him information of where it is,etc. seeing the status of the both of you.
  • WTF that is rediculous!  I can't believe your ex-FI would ever expect an invitation to your wedding!  Who did you hear this from?  I'd make sure your friends who do talk to your ex know that he isn't invited so they don't share details and could even perhaps clue him in that he isn't welcome to attend.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_september-2012-weddings_seriously?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:a464c18c-2e4d-469b-8eae-3865079cb9cfDiscussion:81398189-c001-4f26-ac98-7ce8e6a4695dPost:9fd633a7-1219-4d86-9956-02ac4536e3f5">Re: Seriously!?!?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Luckily for me one of my ushers is a good friend of FI and mine, and calls himself 'the big black hulk' hahaha I told him about it and his response was "if he shows up... <strong><u><font color="#ff0000">HULK SMASH'</font></u></strong> hahaha which truthfully he wouldn't hurt a fly, but he LOOKS scary lol
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  • What a whack job! 
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  • Ugh, wow. I wonder how he even got information about your wedding. I would find out which one of your friend(s) still talks to him and then limit your wedding talk with them. I mean, I don't know if he's being serious or not but I doubt that's a risk you wanna take. Talk about awkward.
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  • I get the impression he knows no specifics of when/where so just the fact I am getting married he could find just by searching for me on facebook.... that or just from the grapevine as he is in the military, thats how we met and rumours spread there like crazy.... He is dreaming if he thinks he is coming!
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