So, I went over to visit my Aunt yesterday and had dinner with her and my uncle and cousins from out of town. My Aunt is very opinionated and says what she thinks without even thinking about it. First she say's "we aren't going to your wedding because we can't afford it. Why didn't you guy's just have a wedding here and then go on your honeymoon over there?" First of all we aren't expecting everyone to make our wedding, we know it is going to be hard financially for some family members to go. And about the honeymoon thing, we don't want a huge wedding here we want a small intimate setting over in paradise! Ugh, why are family members so annoying? This is my day not theirs. Then as we were leaving she says "Why did you have to pick such a crummy month?" Well first of all we picked December because my mother is on break from teaching and she couldn't get any other time off during the year. And besides they are retired so why should it matter what month we pick, yea December 16th is right around Christmas time but we are making it all of our Christmas presents to go for our wedding.
Not to mention a few months ago when I went to see her, she say's "We went to St. Thomas on a cruise and everything was just way to expensive and we couldn't afford anything, it just wasn't fun." First of all why would you say these things to someone when you know they are going. Everyone I talk to that has been there absolutely love it. Also, any trip or vacation you go on it is going to be expensive. That's why you save up money for it.
And she say's all these things with an attitude and like she is really mad at me for going to have the wedding of MY dreams.