I can't decide which route to go with my jewelry. I like two very different styles. My FI prefers the first (he has thing with collars lol) but i think the second would go a long way towards "mainstreaming" a rather unconventional wedding look. Maybe you ladies could give me some fresh perspective.
Option A (but with crimson accents instead of purple)

Option B
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#2 hands down. I agree that it looks a little too Hot Topicy, too.