I know that "Mr. and Mrs. John Doe" is traditional but I can't help disliking that the woman gets married and suddenly has no first name anymore.
I also know that "Mr. and Mrs. John and Jane Doe" and "Mr. John and Mrs. Jane Doe" aren't really great choices either.
And then there's "Jane and John Doe". My wedding isn't very formal but I do like the look/sound of addressing people as Mr., Mrs., Ms., etc.
I'm being ridiculous, I know.
How are you addressing your invitations?