So in the last 16 hours we have lost an usher and a vocalist! The usher is no big deal. The vocalist was singing a duet with someone during the unity candle lighting!!! I was just double checking with my musicians before I start printing/assembling the programs. Guess she wasn't going to tell me or her duet partner that she wasn't coming! Sad thing is this was one of my best friends and now I guess she's not going to even bother coming to my wedding.