NWR....what to give as a gift????

sharkbitemiller · October 2012

Hi,

I have a dilemma and didn't know who to ask so I thought that I would come ask you girls. A very good friend of mine is getting married in Maui. I'm at a lost of what to give them as a gift. The bride did not register anywhere and since it's a destination wedding, it's not like we want to take a gift with us. Normally in the case, I would say money would be ideal but you see.....the bride is VERY well off. Let's just put it this way.....the bride's family is paying for all of the guests to go to the wedding (airfare, hotel, activities....all included!). The hubby and I are not well off, so we cannot afford more than $100-$150. What to do, what to do???

Just H · October 2012

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[QUOTE]Hi, I have a dilemma and didn't know who to ask so I thought that I would come ask you girls. A very good friend of mine is getting married in Maui. I'm at a lost of what to give them as a gift. The bride did not register anywhere and since it's a destination wedding, it's not like we want to take a gift with us. Normally in the case, I would say money would be ideal but you see.....the bride is VERY well off. Let's just put it this way.....the bride's family is paying for all of the guests to go to the wedding (airfare, hotel, activities....all included!). The hubby and I are not well off, so we cannot afford more than $100-$150. What to do, what to do???
Posted by sharkbitemiller[/QUOTE]

You give what you can. The fact they are well off shouldn't make you feel like you have to give more than you are comfortable with or feel bad about what you can give. I am sure they will appreciate anything you can give, especially if it comes with a heartfelt card.

I would give money or a gift card. Someone I know recently gave a couple who was getting married in town but moving out of the country an Amazon.com gift card. I thought that was a great idea, since they have everything. <strong>OR</strong> if you are really close you could make something for them and ship it to them at home. A framed wedding invitation, something that shows the evolution of your friendship, etc.

That's awesome they are able to bring everyone out for the wedding. Enjoy your trip!!!

allisonpickup80 · October 2012

I agree....just give what you can. I just went to a wedding and FI asked me how much we should give ....he suggested a higher amount than I thought we should give because its not like we have an extra chunk of money just sitting around......just give what you can, and if you give money maybe add a special personalized gift.... Like mr. And mrs. Pillow cases or something cute.

dianalynm · October 2012

I agree...sounds to me that they want cash since they don't have a registry, but a gift card is a good option as well. Give what you feel comfortable giving...

sharkbitemiller · October 2012

Thanks for the advice.

I guess I'm having problems coming to terms with giving cash. I mean, I don't care if I give them $100 but because the bride is so well off (her family's net worth is in the Billions), that's literally pocket change for her.

destiny1108 · October 2012

don't worry about the family's wealth, give from the heart, maybe a gift card to a place where they can personalize something (ie: frame for their wedding photo, toasting glasses, etc.) It is the thought that counts

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