Ugh - so we had invited one of FI's co-workers and her husband to our reception (they have worked together for almost 10 years, they also have been friends). They've visited our house, FI painted motorcycle parts for the husband, I'm friends with her on FB (well until about 3 min ago), etc.
Well, FI just let me know that she just royally screwed him at work - reporting him for "suspicious behavior" which the boss - another friend of theirs - shrugged off, knowing better (some items stolen in the last few months). She then took it upon herself to approach another employee (ironically, a guy FI has known for around 20 years) to mention to keep an eye on FI... that guy went and told his boss (because this made him uncomfortable) who is another buddy of FI's and called FI to tell him what was going on.
FI's boss doen't have any suspicions about him - and this chick is acting all normal and cheerful to FI's face...
Now, obviously, he doesn't want her at our reception... I haven't gotten an RSVP yet, but invitations were mailed weeks ago.
I guess we are just stuck.
(FI is really upset - feels totally betrayed).