My FI is in the military and I'm having a hard time settling on a date for the wedding, since nothing seems to be guarenteed for him. He is currently at his A School on the other side of the country and *should* have 2 weeks off between his graduation and next duty station, so we're leaning towards having the wedding then. But thats assuming his grad date doesn't change and he does get the time off. After that, there's no way to guarentee that he'll get to take leave for a specific date, or that that leave won't get revoked because of whatevers going on in the world in 2012...
How have you all handled picking a date? And what are your recomendations for wedding insurance, military clauses, etc.? Additionally, how can we prepare out of town guests for the possibility of last minute changes, especially those who have to book flights?