Ok so I know it shouldn't bug me and I need to just ignore her but I am so fed up with FI's ex harassing us. We went to court last year to file an Order of Harassment and the judge asked if we had changed our phone numbers yet. We hadn't so we did that and she stopped. Well this past week out of the blue she decides to pull my number up off her daughters phone and started with the obscenities and stories/lies she has always bugged us with. Things that are really far fetched, like she saw FI in my car with another woman or when he works overnight he is with her. Ok he never drives my car unless I am with him and he never works nights, so I know its not true. I have never responded to her until this week and I basically stated diplomatically that she was clueless and that she needed to move on, that she was hurting her kids and grandkids. She told the daughter that she took the number from that she was going to disown her for talking to me and took the phone away from her. This kid is so sweet and due with a baby in a few weeks and her Mom pulls this kind of c--p.
FI says its because we are so close to the wedding and we have been buying baby stuff for the daughter and it is pissing her off. Ok we have lived together over 2 years and been together over 3. I am struggling with paying for the Harassment Order. We really can't afford it right now with the wedding so close but I really don't think she is going to stop. We have blocked her from our phones and that seems to have helped. Should I just hold tight and or go ahead and incur the costs? The clerk last week at the court house said we would get it granted because she went above and beyond to get our info. after we changed it. FI says we just need to ignore her and if she upsets one of us we will talk about it but not let it get to us.