Come on RSVPs!

BrittneyRN · September 2012

The RSVPs have been trickling in lately! I'm averaging one a day, even I even get any! The most I've ever gotten in one day is 5-6. We have only have 14 days until our RSVP date (but 2 Sundays, so only 12 mailing days) and I still need to hear from 105 people!

tb103112 · September 2012

I know the feeling, we still have 3 weeks till our rsvp date, but I'm lucky to get one a day. Earlier this week I went 4 days without any.

PattySmith101 · September 2012

ahh this makes me nervous- today we got none- this is the first day where none came- my sil ( brothers wife said they mailed theirs back in the very begin ing and we never got it usually when people tell me they mailed it i get it the next day... we only mailed our invites out 2 1/2 weeks ago! i hope no one elses is missing!!!

[Deleted User] · September 2012

4 more days for me, I hope I have some when I check the mail today!

pockysquirrel · September 2012

My deadline was yesterday, and I'm still waiting on 15 more cards!! FI and I have already started firing off reminders and hunting people down!

tamrahelmer · September 2012

My rsvp date is today! I'm hoping I get a fistful in the mail today since I'm waiting on so many, but I doubt that will happen.

Edit: I'm waiting on 44 cards still. Really people?!

snuff9861 · September 2012

I seriously want to post on facebook reminding people to send in their RSVPs. Even though our date is still 2 weeks away, I have a ton of stuff to do and I need those cards back!

mpjf1001 · September 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_come-on-rsvps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:b67f7814-5c78-44b0-b64f-9b2a11e71564Post:6d876291-31e8-4084-8ca6-c57efc1ac263">Re: Come on RSVPs!</a>:
[QUOTE]I <strong>seriously want to post on facebook reminding people to send in their RSVPs. Even though our date is still 2 weeks away, I have a ton of stuff to do and I need those cards back!
</strong>Posted by snuff9861[/QUOTE]

ditto to this, i have FI texting his friends to tell them to send it back and i started emailing people or asking them in person, wtf people i have a seating plan to do!!! argh!

ericaandtom2012 · September 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_come-on-rsvps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:b67f7814-5c78-44b0-b64f-9b2a11e71564Post:6d876291-31e8-4084-8ca6-c57efc1ac263">Re: Come on RSVPs!</a>:
[QUOTE]I seriously want to <strong>post on facebook</strong> reminding people to send in their RSVPs. Even though our date is still 2 weeks away, I have a ton of stuff to do and I need those cards back!
Posted by snuff9861[/QUOTE]
<div>
</div><div>Unless you invited everyone you are facebook friends with, this is a bad plan. You'd probably get some "where's my invitation?" comments. If you were to PM them instead, that might be better - but there's still 2 weeks until your date.</div><div>
</div><div>We're averaging about 4 per day, but just sent ours out last week, so these are all of the excited and/or prompt people. :) </div>

pzavecz · September 2012

I know what you mean! Our deadline is next week...yeah still waiting on 100 slackers! I was hoping the replies would pick up this week...but nope. Just as slow as ever..maybe even slower. We did get 5 yesterday and 3 today but before that we got nothing on Tuesday and 1 on Wednesday and 1 Thursday.

A couple days ago, I sent PM's on facebook and texts to my BM's that hadn't sent their RSVP's back and also to my really close friends who I knew were going and asked why they hadn't sent their RSVP back. I was upfront and let them know that I was probably going to be reaching out to 100 people that didn't respond yet because people were being real slow so I let them I would appreciate if they just sent it back already to make my life easier. FI did the same with his GM because we hadn't gotten ANY back from them. Geez.

You may want to just send out a reminder to some people (if you're comfortable) and see where they stand. Some people may have just gotten busy and just let it slip. It happens.

pzavecz · September 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_come-on-rsvps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:b67f7814-5c78-44b0-b64f-9b2a11e71564Post:6d876291-31e8-4084-8ca6-c57efc1ac263">Re: Come on RSVPs!</a>:
[QUOTE]I seriously want to post on facebook reminding people to send in their RSVPs. Even though our date is still 2 weeks away, I have a ton of stuff to do and I need those cards back!
Posted by snuff9861[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>Ugh! I feel the same! There are so many times where I just wanted to vent on RSVP's on facebook and think that maybe my passive aggressive attitude would make people start sending in their cards. But I end up holding my tongue because I am paranoid about people trying to invite themselves and asking where their invite was....yeah...awkward. LOL.</div><div>
</div><div>But seriously...I want to so bad sometimes. Haha</div>

staycb01 · September 2012

See why I was freaking out a tad before? once the deadline approaches and there'ss still a bunch left it's very easy to start stressing!

brainybrunette · September 2012

3 days until the deadline and I'm waiting on like 60 people!!!!! This is crazy! I need to order the favors by Fri the 14th and NEED AN ANSWER from people!

mpjf1001 · September 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_come-on-rsvps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:b67f7814-5c78-44b0-b64f-9b2a11e71564Post:24cccf6b-1520-43a8-88ec-c540aa2f91f4">Re: Come on RSVPs!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Come on RSVPs! : <strong>Unless you invited everyone you are facebook friends with, this is a bad plan. </strong>You'd probably get some "where's my invitation?" comments. If you were to PM them instead, that might be better - but there's still 2 weeks until your date. We're averaging about 4 per day, but just sent ours out last week, so these are all of the excited and/or prompt people. :)
Posted by ericaandtom2012[/QUOTE]

Its just a vent!

violakat03 · September 2012

I'm glad I'm not the only one with a bunch of slackers on the guest list!!

insanityofamom · September 2012

We are eleven days out from deadline and I've gotten 4 RSVP cards...

snuff9861 · September 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_come-on-rsvps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:b67f7814-5c78-44b0-b64f-9b2a11e71564Post:ea18fcd7-89f1-4655-ac3a-0ff093284443">Re: Come on RSVPs!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Come on RSVPs! :<strong> Its just a vent!</strong>
Posted by mpjf1001[/QUOTE]

Thank you!! I did say I WANTED to, not that I was GOING to. My RSVP date is the 21st, so people still have 2 weeks. I've had a couple verbal replies, which I guess is better than nothing.

Come on RSVPs!

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