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second guesses

Does anyone here (who hasn't been planning their wedding since they were 7) ever make decisions and then second guess them..

Or is it just me?
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Re: second guesses

  • I've been second guessing my dress, which is terrifying. I know it looks GREAT, but I didn't have that "omg, it's the one" cry. I also usually don't cry, but... hey. When everyone tells me I'm just supposed to *know*... I absolutely have second thoughts. 

    But I haven't second guessed my FI. =)
  • I'm with you!  I never dreamed about my wedding because it was hard to picture it without THAT someone in it.  When I knew I wanted to marry FI we had been together a little less than a year and I didn't want to get too excited so I refused to look at anything but engagement rings until I had a ring on my finger.  Since then, my ideas have changed, but my colors have stayed the same so at least I have that to go off of.  Hard to believe we've been planning for over a year now and it's just over 5 months away!
  • I second guess things all the time as well. I am having a hard time choosing my colors, bridesmaids dresses, and I have even been second guessing my wedding dress! Like the PP I didn't get the 'one' feeling, but you know what, I don't think I am that type of girl. I love my dress and will eventually come to some sort of decision regarding our colors and dresses.     :)
  • I second guessed everything with our wedding and actually changed our venue, my dress, my hairstyle, tux rental place and my shoes.  I ended up loving my second choice.  Don't worry about second guessing... or changing your mind.  You will know when it feels right.
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    We welcomed our girls on 11.7.12 @ 40w0d!
    Emerson Lily 6 lbs 13 oz & Ellis Willow 6 lbs 9 oz
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  • I do it all the time! I am horrible at making decisions and my wedding is the like complete opposite of how we started out!

    I also second guessed my dress majorly - I cried for like days and was even having another dress shipped to a store near me to try on but then I went back to try on my dress and fell back in love with it!

    I think its hard because there are SO many beautiful weddings that I just want to do it all but I can't. My wedding is like preppy, sophisticated rustic but I love the look of other weddings as well but some things just won't go with what I am planning.
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