Okay Knotties- I want to have a cocktail wedding reception, but have never been to one myself and am worried about how my guest will take it. So here are some facts:
- 160 guests of both family and friends (all local so cal residents)
- Reception length is from 6p-12a
- A fun party with open, free flowing bar is in our top 3 important aspects in a reception (our venue allows us to bring in our own alcohol w/o corkage fees)
- Heavy hors d'oeuvres will be served/ passed, enough to fill their tummies and not starve
- This type of reception was chosen as a way to bring attention more towards the party as opposed to being stationary on the groom and I, and allow us to remember and spend time with ALL of our guests
- The venue is conducive to this type of reception, looks like a lounge/ club
- There are different types of seating areas, lounge furniture, belly tables and cocktail rounds (enough seating for approx 50-60 at one time)
Okay now here are my concerns:1) I feel like 6 hours is too long to have a cocktail reception, but I still want to do many "traditional" aspects of a reception (Speeches, dances, etc.) Should I shorten the length of the reception? 2) Should every butt have a seat? Places to sit are available but not for EVERYONE to sit all at once 3)Do I have enough hors d'oeuvres (15 pieces/person)? 4) I am worried about what the traditional type family members will say about an unconventional reception
Honest opinions please I still have time to change to a sit down!