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MOH Vent

rachel801231rachel801231
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My MOH is driving me absolutely freaking crazy over her stupid shoes.  I let each girl choose their own dress (as long as they were short) and they can even choose their own shoes as long as they are silver.  She has been whining about not being able to wear flip flops during the ceremony and how she wishes we had floor lenght dresses so she could wear them.  Well, even if they had floor lenght dresses I would not allow flip flops during the ceremony.  She can wear all the flip flops she wants at the reception, that I don't care about.  I even plan on changing into more comfortable shoes during the reception.  She's been whining about how she can't find a pair of silver shoes. SERIOUSLY?????? 

Silver is one of the most popular colors out there!  I don't think it's asking awhole lot to wear a pair of nice shoes that are silver during the ceremony!  I am not asking a whole lot of my bridesmaids other than to show up in a pool blue dress and silver shoes.  I don't care if they have their hair done professionally or what style it is.  I haven't asked any of them to help with anything wedding related other than to show up on the wedding day.  All the other girls seem to be fine with this.  Even my 8 month pregnant bridesmaid hasn't had a problem with any of this.  The wedding isn't till March 31st so there's still time to find shoes. 

I'm to the point in telling her that she could have said no about being my MOH and being done with it over a stupid pair of shoes.  She brings it up all the time.  All I am asking is a pair of silver shoes that aren't flip flops! That's all! 

Sorry that this was kind of long.  She was texting me again today about her shoes.
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  • jml1981jml1981
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    Wow. I would be annoyed too. You should send her a website with a ton of silver shoes and tell her to pick one. lol. Hope it all works out and she gets over it!
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  • rebeccaa12rebeccaa12
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    My MOH (sister) didn't want to wear black shoes. Or get her hair done with everyone while we get dressed- EVEN THOUGH HER HAIR WOULD BE DONE FOR FREE. She wants to be difficult, shrug. I figured, oh well, she's the one missing out. Not a hill to die on. However, I am annoyed and would be too, if I were you!
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  • amh04amh04
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    I'd be pretty annoyed, I'd totally send her an email/text saying Sorry you're having a tough time here are some links to silver shoes that I found. Looks like they are a ton of options, hope this helps and I can't wait to see which one you pick out.
    http://www.dsw.com/dsw_shoes/search/search.jsp?searchTerm=Womens Shoes@color@Silver
    http://www.6pm.com/womens-heels~Nm#!/women-silver-heels/CK_XARC41wFCAvgEwAEB4gIEGAECCA.zso
    http://www.zappos.com/womens-heels~C8#!/womens-silver-heels~X

    You get the point, just thought I'd give you some links. Heck I believe Target even has some.
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  • rachel801231rachel801231
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    I actually did send her some links to shoes.  She said she tried on one of the pairs I sent her but the heel was too tall and she couldn't walk in them.  She also said her toes stuck out the end of the shoes.....well that means they don't fit so try ANOTHER SIZE!  I even sent her a link to a pair of cute sparkly silver ballet flats.  Now she wants something that has a little bit of a heel.  I finally told her that she's the only one of my bridesmaids that has had any problems and I thought I was being nice by letting them pick out their own dress, shoes, and letting them do what they want with their hair.  So now it's just because she is picky.  I seriously can't win with her.

    However, I have been doing some thinking and I think she may be having a hard time with this whole thing anyway (me getting married)  I'm the last of her single friends (at least around her age 31)  and I think she may be having a hard time being the only single one left.  She has a boyfriend that she's dated even longer than FI and I have been together but it's no where close to being serious.  So I'm not sure what's going on in her mind or if she just really likes being difficult.
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  • w+c3w+c3 member
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    That is so dumb. But I know what you mean about girls being difficult. Each girl I think has complained about something: shoes, hair, make up, rehersal, bachelorette party. You name it.
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