I am having a small wedding just 19 guests plus bride and groom, I would have thought that a small wedding would have been less to plan, but I still stress over flowers, food, photography etc. What is really nice is the way that our 19 guests seem to be pulling together to help with the wedding. My FSIL is having the wedding at her home, my FMIL is doing the appertizers and beverages, someone gave us money for food and flowers, my BFF is hosting the bachelorette party (more of a get to know you for all the women at the wedding), my daughter has been super involved, and I others are helping as well. this wedding although it is to celebrate the our marriage, is really a way to celebrate the love of our family and friends and enjoy each others company. I wish for all knottie brides a very happy and fun wedding day and that you too feel the love of those who surround you on your special day.