Ok the wedding is over and I am a happily married woman !! But I have some complaints I cant get out of my head and need to vent and ask where to go from here with them. 1st my flowers were wrong, very pretty but NOT the colors & flowers I asked and paid for. The florist brought them to me a little over 1 hr before the wedding was to start so I saw they were wrong and said nothing at the time I did not want to spoil my time by being pissed about flowers...but now I am. 2nd my cake lady decided she thought my cake needed to have bigger desgins on it so it looked like I made it and had very thick gloppy frosting on it of course she was pre paid as well. I dont know how to approach them about me not being happy without getting into a confrontation ( I have short temper and am emotionally invested in how things went) I see me calling them and it going south very quick and ending in me cussing and being hung up on. any advice on what to do??