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NWR... Kinda of...

The Baby72The Baby72
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So I was out with my mami and she says to me.." you know your SIL jut met her weight loss goal of 50lbs and now she is working on firming. You really dont want to be fatter for your wedding do you?" well WTF of course I DON"T know I have MORE preassure to loose the weight. I am in crazy over-drive. I know she means well but REALLY......

geri.....
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  • adrielegorburuadrielegorburu
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    edited December 2011
    WTF!?! I wouldnt have been nice on that one... like I wasnt nice when my mom asked if there was anything I could do about my "grandama" arms before this sunday..... Girl you keep doing what youre doing and you are going to look amazing on your wedding day~ better than any SIL~
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  • Tiffayqp12Tiffayqp12
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    edited December 2011
    Geri I am sure you are doing a great job!!  Who cares what anyone else says.  You can do this--but for you and not for anyone else!
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  • The Baby72The Baby72
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks Ladies. I have already lost 12lbs so would like 25-30 by big day. I feel good and nothing like moms coments to get your  *ss to workout EVERY morning.

    geri...
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  • babytecbabytec member
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    edited December 2011

    Keep up the good work Geri!!! you have time; you can def. do it!!!

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  • ShuutnstarShuutnstar
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    edited December 2011
    Want me to go beat her up for you?

    It sux the kind of pressure we have to deal with to be skinny. I know there are the ones of us who REALLY need to lose a lot of weight, but then there are girls who weigh 125lbs and think they need to lose 5 or 10 or they won't look good.

    Positive body image needs to start with us as little girls so we don't end up with eating disorders and body dismorphic disorders as we grow into women.

    You just keep up your hard work, keep eating healthy and rewarding your good behavior. You will look amazing on your day. It is impossible for you not to.
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  • ShuutnstarShuutnstar
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    edited December 2011
    Oh... it was your mom? I mis read thought it was FMIL... I sorry. I guess I won't beat her up for you. :)

    Keep on rocking it though!
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  • Lacey36Lacey36 member
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    edited December 2011
    You will make that loss hun, im sure you are doing awesome and dont let anyone else bring you down to be in a competition. =)
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  • twinkle82576twinkle82576 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sure you're working very hard. Don't let anybody bring you down. I'm trying to lose weight as well, and I know how hard it is, and how discouraging it can be when you don't see change, or hear comments like that directed at you. Keep up the good work.
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  • sambrefe67sambrefe67 member
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    edited December 2011
    umm who the F says something like that? You are going to be beautiful no matter what! as long as YOU feel good who cares about everyone else. Whether its under weight over weight or just right if you arent happy then none of it matters anyways
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  • graceandjakegraceandjake member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh my gosh, my feelings would have been so hurt!  So sorry you had to deal with that.
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  • bears4lifebears4life member
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    edited December 2011
    WTF! Thats ridiculous. Who cares what anybody says..you're doing awesome and are going to look amazing!
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  • lyndopolyndopo
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    edited December 2011
    OMG... I'm sorry she's making you feel guilty. Soooo not cool!
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