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January 2012 Weddings

Priest Problems

My priest basically told me off via a phone conversation. We were talking about the wedding ceremony and he was very demanding and rude. I feel so hurt. He was so mean to me saying that the wedding planner told him I am trying to change the Catholic ceremony. I tried to explain that I'm not trying to change it at all, I just expressed that I wanted my bridal party to stand up in the front when we come in. He said that he has done it this way for 6 years and has never had a complaint. Also he is a little mad that we are requesting the other priest to do our ceremony, not him. Also since this is the parish I grew up in I asked him for a letter that my principal (since I work in a Catholic school) needs stating that I belong to a Catholic church and he denied me saying I am not registered there. Well, I've been going there my entire life, doesn't that count for something?!


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Re: Priest Problems

  • Where were you baptized and confirmed? if it was there he shouldn't be giviing you a problem!?!
  • and by golly... he is a preist... he should be acting better than this. I hope things get better!
  • Yes, I was baptised and confirmed there! He says now that I am getting married we have to offically register. So I will later this week but they better not ask me for more money! And yes, I agree, you would think he'd be a little nicer since he is a priest!
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.weddingchannel.com/main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_january-2012-weddings_priest-problems?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:5a1804e7-e8c8-4829-9e61-b9d49f3a9b5fDiscussion:4ae92a67-9ce6-4477-9425-44a28cadfddcPost:f754000c-2b70-49ba-a970-ff5e450ddb4f">Re: Priest Problems</a>:
    [QUOTE]Yes, I was baptised and confirmed there! He says now that I am getting married we have to offically register. So I will later this week but they better not ask me for more money! And yes, I agree, you would think he'd be a little nicer since he is a priest!
    Posted by TaraW1979[/QUOTE]

    Given he's a Catholic priest, can't you go over his head?  To like a bishop or something?
  • Oh my! I"m sorry that you having such issues. I wish I had better advice! But I wish the best of luck and I hope things getting better for you!
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  • I am sorry for the extra stress Tara!
  • Thanks guys! And no Mark, I can't go over his head, but I wish I could.
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  • :( I'm confused though, if you're having another priest do the ceremony, why is this priest even talking to you about it?

    I don't understand why he'd be so angry/mean, especially being a priest. It's your wedding, for goodness sake!! While there are of course things in the church that "are the way they are" you should still be able to customize to a certain level to fit your needs and preferences.
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  • Oh, Tara...I'm sorry he's being so ugly.
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  • I would have to ask my FMIL ( she is her church's secretary), but you should already be registered. That is so wierd
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_january-2012-weddings_priest-problems?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:5a1804e7-e8c8-4829-9e61-b9d49f3a9b5fDiscussion:4ae92a67-9ce6-4477-9425-44a28cadfddcPost:d64de7a4-0829-40b0-8a59-e21f89029ce4">Re: Priest Problems</a>:
    [QUOTE]:( I'm confused though, if you're having another priest do the ceremony, why is this priest even talking to you about it?
    Posted by katiebaka[/QUOTE]

    He's the pastor;  aka: the head of the church.
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