I'd really like people's opinions on this. We really wanted to elope, but basically got pressured into having a "real" wedding by our families. It's fine now. We're excited to plan everything BUT I have recurring nightmares about the awkwardness of our reception.
There's going to be between 30-40 people...40 if everyone we invite comes. We haven't settled on a dj or a band yet. My concern is that the reception will be awkward. We only have a five hour block of time including the ceremony, so there will only be around 2 hours of what would be dancing. Of the 30-40 people, at least ten are extremely elderly. I guess I just worry that no one will dance, and the last two hours will be people just staring at each other.
Has anyone else been to/had/is planning such a small wedding? If so, what did you do for music? Other activities? Was is awkward? What was the flow of the wedding?
Sorry this was so rambling. I'm just panicking.
thanks!