So FIL's (the extended kind) have a rude tendency to invite themselves to events. FI's aunt guilted FMIL (her sister) into inviting her and her husband to the RD. FI's other aunt (another sister of FMIL) guilted me into letting her and previous aunt attend the bachelorette party (I didn't care too much because they are the moms of our "Les Femmes de Fleurs"- another long story, also involving people inviting themselves and self-promoting themselves into our wedding... *sigh*) But not only that, but Aunt #2 invited her 3 other daughters to the bachelorette spa day 'party'; again whatever, I'm not paying for it... then BACKED OUT without telling me! So I was expecting 50% univited people and 50% important people, then suddenly I'm down to less people than we even made reservations for! I'm so pissed off at how inconsiderate and rude his family is! I'm trying to invite my extended family and groomsmen's dates last minute now to just fill the 10 reservations that have been made! UUUUGGGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!