Hey, all...I am ust starting on this whole process (my FI just rpoposed last weekend), and I am in truth feeling a little overwhelmed and looking for advice.
Just for some history...he and I are both in our 40s, and we have 3 daughters (9, 13, 15) between us. We actually have a lot of history, as he was my first BF in HS, and we had planned to marry right after graduation. Long story short, that didn't work out, but we reconnected on Facebook last summer.
We are planning on marrying next summer, and I am trying to figure out a starting point to wrap my head around this whole process. I don't know if we want to do the whole fancy thing (we are getting married in a Catholic church) or if we want to do something simple. I'm not sure where to go with the reception, the cake, the flowers, the favors...I am totally at a loss right now. LOL. One of the things causing some of this is that he has not had the traditional wedding before, and he is a very old-fashioned kind of guy. I am flexible.
So, that's a lot of confusion I know
Suggestions on a starting point???